Club Softball in Morris County, NJ
From Little Pink Gloves to Fire Breathing Dragons
I have two daughters who play club softball. They love the sport. Softball started when they were 5 years old. We purchased little pink gloves and signed them up for Tee-Ball. They were so cute. A few years later, I was coaching and they were playing town travel games - spring, summer, and fall. They couldn’t get enough. In the winter months, they would practice in the freezing garage hitting balls into the net, listening to their favorite music.
We soon found that town travel programs had limitations, mostly because of poor parent coaching or program rules designed to level the playing field. So, we attended tryouts for a popular club team in Morris County. My kids were so excited when they were offered positions on the team. Unfortunately, that lasted about one season. Given the cost, we were not impressed with the coaches or the program. So, we began moving from team-to-team, looking for better opportunities.
We quickly learned that most club teams are motivated by money, and, the more money you contribute, the more favoritism your daughter receives. This was discouraging. We were hoping that club teams would favor the most skilled, talented, and dedicated athletes. We also learned that Morris County has very few club softball options, and, traveling 60+ minutes to practice in rush hour traffic was completely unsustainable for our family. Finally, we learned that great softball programs require great coaches, which are really difficult to find.
Paid coaches make very little money. From our experience, this can impact their overall performance and commitment. Why invest extra time and energy into a team that pays you peanuts? Parent coaches are highly motivated because they want the best for their own children. However, parent coaches are often accused of Daddy Ball. This happens because their children are granted special privileges and positions, which are unearned and unjustified. Some parent coaches can be great, especially when their daughters are exceptional athletes and respectful. For any coach, success starts with your own children. They are shining examples of your coaching competence and ability.
We also learned that club softball costs can be much more affordable. You just need parent volunteers, who are dedicated and experienced, to manage your program - no profits, no paid coaches. Sharing costs is a better fee structure for everyone involved. Plus, it provides more freedom for the team to do tournaments and other events that everyone wants.
One of the great things about fastpitch club softball is that you meet some really great people along the way. We joined together with another softball family who shares similar goals and beliefs to our own. Together, we started NJ Dragons Fastpitch Softball. Our mission is to create an affordable club program, local to Morris County NJ, where talented athletes are given the opportunity to compete at the highest levels and play on a really great team.
We are always looking for families to join us. We are the NJ Dragons. Please contact us for a private tryout and more information.
Coach Fox - NJ Dragons 16U
Email: DragonsFastpitchNJ@gmail.com